An Effective
Communicator!
How
to Break the Sound and Space Barrier:
The Winning Colors®
process
Are you not
getting through to People?
Could it be
that you are not reading people
correctly?
Learn
the secret for communicating with anyone
in
the most effective manner!
For various reasons in some
people, one or two parts of self always
dominate their behaviors. This results in
ineffective communication, leadership,
teams and interpersonal skills.
Where
successful communication, leadership etc.
are present, people are able to activate
all four parts of themselves as
appropriate to the situation and the
person they are communicating.
Your secret
is to identify the PRESENT predominating part in yourself and
others. Are you presently communicating in the
GREEN ......................................................................................................mode?
BROWN .....................................................................................................mode?
BLUE ..........................................................................................................mode?
RED .........................................................................................................mode?
Is the
person you are communicating with
communicating in the:
GREEN
......................................................................................................mode?
BROWN .....................................................................................................mode?
BLUE ..........................................................................................................mode?
RED.............................................................................................................mode?
An effective Communication corrections
These are the parts which often interact and
cause negative communication with staff, students or within
the boardroom.
With
knowledge of present behaviors one may
choose to reinforce existing behaviors or
develop new ones according to ones
personal goals. NOTE the word PRESENT!
An
illustration: if I were to assess my
PRESENT English vocabulary and then
pigeonhole or type cast myself by saying
"this is the limit. I shall always
have just this knowledge of English
words." That would be ridiculous. I
may learn many new words and expand my
vocabulary for the rest of my life. So,
too, I may expand my communication power
and develop many new behavioral
communication strengths. These may be
focused on thinking or deciding or feeling
or taking action.
WARNING:
Because of past experience, you may have
an emotional attachment to various
personality inventories that have a
tendency— if not totally—to
pigeonhole a person as a certain type.
This blocks
a person's capacity to become a Person
for All Seasons!
This is especially dangerous when training
and relating with new staff, employees or students who are
particularly open to developing new, success oriented, and
positive behaviors. Many educational institutes are
communication graveyards.
How effective is your communication within
your staff or students?
How time/cost-effective is your institution or
organization?
How balanced is your boardroom, university,
college, school or institution?
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